Welcome to Bellwether Thoughts, a blog by Janice Carnevale, owner of Bellwether Events. Janice uses this space to convey her random likes and loves to the tens of people who may be reading. This is not a wedding blog. This is a blog that will allow you to get to know the woman behind the weddings.

Bellwether Events is a wedding planning and coordination firm serving the Washington DC metro area. Bellwether Events strives to be honest and sincere with engaged couples to create clever and unparalleled weddings.

Thursday, December 30, 2010

Obsessed: Freaks and Geeks


I found another TV show marathon over the Christmas weekend that totally sucked me in: Freaks and Geeks. This show ran for one year, 18 episodes from 1999-2000. It is set in the 1980s and follows siblings Lindsay and Sam through normal high school trials and tribulations. Lindsay is a former mathlete who has befriended a group pf "freaks" and Sam, younger, is clearly a "geek." I watched this show back when it originally aired and nowadays when people discuss TV shows that they miss, I always chime in with "Freaks and Geeks." When watching the reruns, I realized many awesome things. First, the executive producer was Judd Apatow. Second, while I remember the actress who played the Lindsay character clearly, I did not remember that James Franco, Jason Segal, Busy Phillips and Seth Rogan are all "freaks" as well. Additionally, there are appearances by the actor who played Biff in the Back To The Future movies, Rashida Jones and Ben Stiller. What a pleasant surprise! I really enjoyed watching all of the reruns, it really does show what high school was like for the rest of us :)

Obsessed: Criminal Minds


Over the Christmas holiday I discovered a TV show that I am now completely obsessed with: Criminal Minds. My friend Kelly Spalding had been telling me that she thought I would like the show, so I checked out a marathon of episodes. Now I watch every episode I can find, as the show has been on for five years now and I have a lot to catch up on :) If you like cop dramas, I recommend you check it out!

Tuesday, December 28, 2010

Tuesday Shoesday Part 2: real vow renewal shoes

When my friend Allison blogged these shoes last week, I had to have them. They are just so wonderful!



For more Tuesday Shoesday goodness, head over to Landlocked Bride, Life in the Superburbs, Simply and Forever, Meant to be Sent, Swatchbook Weddings, Jan Schill, The Demoiselle, Postcards and Pretties, A Realistic Wedding, and Magnolia Rouge.

Or search #tuesdayshoesday on Twitter!

Tuesday Shoesday Part 1: Christmas Shoes

No, not those Christmas shoes. I am sharing what I received last week! The first were ourchased via a Target gift card. As you may know, I've been on the hunt for slippers. I found these boys' slippers and loved how warm and snug they were, but also had a sturdy sole for dog walking at night.



And these were a gift from my mom. I am so excited to have versatile black rain boots - we get a fair amount of rain in the DC area and I just love Kamik boots!


Tuesday, December 21, 2010

Tuesday Shoesday: real wedding shoes!

I obtained these beautiful pictures from Vida Carson, a Philadelphia wedding photographer who photographed my mailman's daughter's wedding in Mexico earlier this month! Robert the mailman came in beaming last week, telling us about the blog post, and as soon as I saw these, I had to share them with you. Enjoy!







To see more from her wedding, go here. And to check out their engagement session, go here.

I swear, this isn't a wedding blog :)

For more Tuesday Shoesday goodness, head over to Landlocked Bride, Life in the Superburbs, Simply and Forever, Meant to be Sent, Swatchbook Weddings, Jan Schill, The Demoiselle, Postcards and Pretties, A Realistic Wedding, and Magnolia Rouge.

Or search #tuesdayshoesday on Twitter!

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Tuesday Shoesday: Etsy Finds

My friend Amber Gustafson linked on Twitter today to some beautiful shoes that she borrowed from a friend who got them from Etsy, and it got me thinking that I needed to explore Etsy for shoes. Usually my go-to is Zappos, in case you had not noticed. But I was thrilled with the unique finds on Etsy!

I found these on the front page of women's shoes. I love them!


These are pretty spooky and have a very strong point of view, but I think the artist seems really talented! And they would be great for Halloween!


And I can't leave you today without a pair of slippers, since I am still in need of a new pair for this winter. Plus I just adore the dog in the photo!



For more Tuesday Shoesday goodness, head over to Landlocked Bride, Life in the Superburbs, Simply and Forever, Meant to be Sent, Swatchbook Weddings, Jan Schill, The Demoiselle, Postcards and Pretties, A Realistic Wedding, and Magnolia Rouge.

Or search #tuesdayshoesday on Twitter!

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

Tuesday Shoesday: Recycled Shoes

I always knew that there were multiple places to get gently worn wedding dresses on the web - Once Wed and Recycled Bride come to mind first. Well, while tooling around on Recycled Bride, I discovered that they also have new and gently used shoes for sale there too! And not just any shoes - but fancy schmancy shoes! Take a look here, and then go over there and get some!

How about brand new Christian Louboutin Prive Glitter Pumps for $250:


Or these gently worn Badgley Mischka Champagne Randee Sandal for $115:
I also adore these Stuart Weitzman Solitaire pumps for $195:


For a more budget friendly option, how about Kenneth Cole Bowloved-Sa shoes for $75:


There are many other options on the Recycled Bride website, I encourage you to check them out!

For more Tuesday Shoesday goodness, head over to Landlocked Bride, Life in the Superburbs, Simply and Forever, Meant to be Sent, Swatchbook Weddings, Jan Schill, The Demoiselle, Postcards and Pretties, A Realistic Wedding, and Magnolia Rouge.

Or search #tuesdayshoesday on Twitter!

Thursday, December 2, 2010

Shopping: Give Good Stuff

As promised, today I am revealing my favorite places to shop for amazing gifts. I hope this small collection of ideas helps you out this holiday season.

As you know, I love food! And I absolutely love Zingermans. I have forgotten where I first learned about this delicious deli located in Ann Arbor. Their breads are a staple for me for Thanksgiving and Christmas. The Chocolate Cherry Sourdough and the Cranberry Pecan Bread are required eating for me.

For the longest time I only bought my younger siblings clothes (I felt they had enough toys!) for birthdays and Christmas. It got to the point where when they saw my name on the "From:" line, they wouldn't even open the package - they'd just mumble "clothes" and toss the box aside. Now they wear uniforms to school and I have been asked not to buy them any more clothes :) If you are lucky enough to get to shop for kids clothes, I recommend Mini Boden. This Canadian company sells positively adorable clothes and accessories for babies, girls and boys.

And my ultimate secret weapon, the catalog/website that has gotten me more oohs and aahs at showers and parties is (drum roll) Uncommon Goods. This website has unique and green gifts for everyone that you could possibly shop for. Take a peek, trust me you will find something to purchase - if not for someone else, then definitely for yourself.

I Hope you like my little finds. Happy shopping!

Wednesday, December 1, 2010

Shopping: Do Good

Every Christmas I try to spend some money on "doing good" in addition to the consumption of "stuff." I have honed my favorites over the year and am bursting to share them with you.

First, as I've blogged before, I love Donors Choose. Through this organization you can look through thousands of publoc school classroom requests and contribute as much as you'd like to one or more. You can also buy a "gift card" and give it to someone else to allocate to a project. I am giving these to my 11 and 13 year old siblings this year. I can't wait to hear what they decide to do with them.

Second, Heifer International. I LOVE this organization. They provide (mostly) animals to people in developing areas to help them not only sustain themselves through food but also generate income. You can "buy" honey bees, rabbits, geese, ducks, chickens, goats, pigs, sheep, cows and even water buffalo. What is even cooler is that you can go to the Heifer Farm in the US in the spring and help with the birthing of the lambs! How cool does that sound?

Kiva is another organization dedicated to helping people help themselves. You can give a loan to someone who is a blooming entrepreneur and be paid back within six months. Kiva believes that the partnership relationship encourages respect and dignity, as well as accountability, and that is why they promote loans and not donations.

The Wounded Warrior Project is an organization that I learned about from my clients who made donations in honor of their wedding guests, in lieu of favors. In a time where many return from war, but return wounded, this organization has a critical mission: to honor and empower this generation's wounded warriors.

As you probably know, I am a huge advocate of homeless animals. So it is hard for me to select just one animal rescue to donate to. The larger ones (Humane Society, SPCA) already have huge benefactors. So I will point out that two I have worked with locally, and adopted my dogs from: Internet Miniature Pinscher Service and Lost Dog and Cat Rescue.

So there is my charity round up for 2010. I hope you will consider a gift to one of them this season! Tomorrow I will share some of my secret shopping websites where I get amazing gifts.

Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Tuesday Shoesday: Boots!

I really need a new pair of shoes for the winter. Nicer, dressier shoes. I can't be wearing my Brooks Ariels or Chucks to all my meetings. And my 4-inch-high boots, while hot, are not practical enough (read: comfortable enough) for regular use. They need to be sturdy enough for a little bit of bad weather too. Here are some that I found. All are pushing my comfort level just a bit in their trendiness. But in the past when I push myself with shoes I wind up with my most favorites pairs. Which one should I get?

Ugg: Maxene
Gabriella Rocha: Cervetti
Enzo Angiolini: Chyler
Rocket Dog: Slinger





For more Tuesday Shoesday goodness, head over to Landlocked Bride, Life in the Superburbs, Simply and Forever, Meant to be Sent, Swatchbook Weddings, Jan Schill, The Demoiselle, Postcards and Pretties, A Realistic Wedding, and Magnolia Rouge.

Thursday, November 25, 2010

Excited: Totally Mine!

This is not a normal post. But it is my blog, and I am very very excited about something. I got my trademark! You know what TM stands for? Totally Mine. That's right. "Bellwether Events" is totally mine!




Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Obsessed: eTrade Baby Commercials

I just love these commercials. They crack my shit up!

Tuesday, November 23, 2010

Thursday, November 18, 2010

Prince, my foster dog

I wanted to share the photos that Melissa McDaniel took of Prince over the summer...







Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Obsessed: Dog Adoption

There are few things I am more passionate about than dog adoption. There are so many myths out there about homeless dogs, it makes my stomach turn. In actuality, most dogs in shelters and rescues have simply been evicted from their home. These evictions come for many reasons - a change in jobs, a move/foreclosure/eviction, a divorce, addition of babies, teens no longer interested in the dog, addition of other pets or a lack of dedication to exercising/training the dog.


First is the myth that shelter dogs are all aggressive. Shelters and rescues actually have a responsibility to weed out the aggressive dogs due to insurance requirements. My rescue turns away dogs that have drawn blood. I have been bit by a dog and I don't wish it on anyone. So most dogs in rescues and shelters have been put through temperament tests. That said, every new dog brought into your home should be taken to obedience classes so that you and your dog can communicate with each other.

The second myth I hear is that most shelter dogs have medical issues. This could not be further from the truth. Yes, you will find some dogs, such as my foster Prince, with major medical issues, but it is widely accepted that mutts are much healthier than pure bred dogs. Most breeders are not good breeders. Most "breeders" are in fact puppy mills and they are only in it for the money and therefore skimp on basic vet care. This holds especially true for puppies found in pet stores.

Finally, I have heard people complain that they are looking for a very specific kind of dog. I don't blame you; I wanted a very specific dog myself - and I was able to find her in rescue. Petfinder has over 350,000 pets available for adoption. There is something for everyone on there. For example, a quick search turned up 170 french bulldogs or french bulldog mixes across the country. There are 150+ Boxer or Boxer mixes within 100 miles of Virginia. I found over 350 Labrador Retrievers or Lab mixes within 100 miles of Denver, Colorado. There are almost 600 chihuahuas in need of a home within 100 miles of New Jersey. And over 200 Golden Retriever or Golden Retriever mixes are looking for a new home in New England. If you are looking for a specific breed, you can almost certainly find a rescue specific to that breed in your area and your perfect dog is likely to come up in their ranks sooner rather than later.

So please consider adoption when looking for a new pet. Over 6 millions pets are euthanized each year because shelters simply don't have the space to keep them all. This is a tragedy, and it is preventable. Also, please spay or neuter every pet. And thanks for reading.

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Tuesday Shoesday: Slippers

It's that time of year where I put my flip flops away and begrudgingly resume wearing socks and closed toe shoes. And around the house you will often find me in slippers. The slippers I am currently wearing have certainly seen better days, so I thought I'd look into some new options, and share my findings with you! All images from Nordstrom.



These Roxy slippers appear to be a great blend of shoe and slipper. Great for me, since I tend to go on dog walks in my slippers:
These saucy leopard print slippers are right up my alley, from Juicy:
As the proud mama of a weiner dog, these Haflinger slippers immediately caught my eye:






For more Tuesday Shoesday goodness, head over to Landlocked Bride, Life in the Superburbs, Simply and Forever, Meant to be Sent, Swatchbook Weddings, Jan Schill, The Demoiselle, Postcards and Pretties, A Realistic Wedding, and Magnolia Rouge.

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Proud of this...

I know this isn't a wedding blog, but I am really proud of what my team and I put together this past weekend at the 2010 Not So Big Wedding Challenge. Thanks to Corcoran Caterers, Petal's Edge, A Britton Photography and Washington Talent Agency for indulging me and my ideas. Here are a few sneak peeks:



Obsessed: Paper Source

I love Paper Source. I love the kits, the stamps, the calendars, the tchotchkes, and the paper, oh the paper. Paper Source makes it easy for me to be crafty and put out decent looking paper products for my clients.

I want to make this wreath:
Who can resist these doggie Christmas cards?

How brilliant and convenient is this stamp set for menu selections? I love it!


Tuesday, November 9, 2010

Tuesday Shoesday: Party Shoes!



I am so in love with these shoes. I wore them to my birthday party this past weekend. They are Reecey by Madden Girl. I hope you like them!


For more Tuesday Shoesday goodness, head over to Landlocked Bride, Life in the Superburbs, Simply and Forever, Meant to be Sent, Swatchbook Weddings, Jan Schill, The Demoiselle, Postcards and Pretties, A Realistic Wedding, and Magnolia Rouge.

Friday, November 5, 2010

Punchline, redux

Tomorrow is (finally) my 30th birthday party. I pushed it back 3 weeks after my actual in hopes that some of my industry friends could attend. And all of them except a few are going to make it! Over 18 months ago I told Steve, the lead singer of Punchline, that they had to play my party. He thought I was kidding. I was not. Since you are probably not going to be at my party, here is a little dose of what you are missing out on (in addition to hot dogs, hamburgers, soft pretzels, nacho and an ice cream cart)!




Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Tuesday Shoesday: Election Day!

I found these patriotic shoes (from my favorite brand, Converse) to showcase on Tuesday Shoesday so that you all might remember to go and vote today!




For more Tuesday Shoesday goodness, head over to Landlocked Bride, Life in the Superburbs, Simply and Forever, Meant to be Sent, Swatchbook Weddings, Jan Schill, The Demoiselle, Postcards and Pretties, A Realistic Wedding, and Magnolia Rouge.

Monday, November 1, 2010

Obsessed: Tee Shirts on Threadless

Much to my husband's chagrin, I love wearing tee shirts. I have a lot of tee shirts. So many that I had a tee shirt quilt made with about 30 of my favorite shirts. Threadless is one of my favorite places to shop for new tees. Here are some of my current favorites:

Thursday, October 28, 2010

Obsessed: My dogs: Tammy

Here is our second rescue, Tammy, as photographed by Melissa McDaniel. She just turned 5 years old two days ago and we got her in November 2007. She is a 9 pound, long haired, black & rust dachshund.

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Obsessed: My dogs: Nikki

I had professional photos of my dogs taken by Melissa McDaniel and I think it's time to blog about them. They are so great! This is Nikki. She is an 11 year old, 12 pound black & tan miniature pinscher. She was out first rescue, we got her in September 2005.